7 Things You Should NOT Think About On And Around Your Wedding !
Of course, you want your big day to be the best day of your life, and well to execute the dream you must plan accordingly to avoid any potential pitfalls along the way. Remember, you’ve invited everyone to share what will be one of the most memorable days of your life and it’s high time now that you own up to each responsibility like a BOSS. Take a look at all these ‘too-common-please-don’ts.’
1. Let Emotions Control You
Sounds fine? Well, it is not… planning for an event that’ll be cherished in memories for life brings along a huge lot of anxiety, excitement, fear and many more feels. Basically, you’ll be feeling all such emotions at the same time which you didn’t know you could ever feel. But remember, these are just feelings and should not control you at any point in time. Stay strong and focused on your dreamy day.
2. Trying To Contact Your Ex’s
It may not seem something you’d do, but plenty of women surprise themselves. Getting all chaotic during the arrangement would make you weak sometimes.. you might start getting second thoughts about your decisions to start a new life. Maybe you’ll want to get back to your basic life or previous lovers but NO! you’re getting married to the love of your life who stood strong with you throughout.
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3. Last Minute Bad Decisions
It’s insidious. You’re ready to settle on anything without thinking how bad that could turn out to be… well’ stop right there. If you’ll scramble your plans like this you’ll veer off the course you set for your own dream wedding. Be it the breakdowns that are getting on your head or finalizing your venue or your dress for the day. Take your time mate, nothing's in hurry except for you. Chill!
4. No Research For Your Big Day
One time in life, you’ll be planning something so important on such a grand note and if this is not enough for you to put in the most of what anyone can, I don’t know what else can it be. Study everything deeply and plan the best for yourself according to your resources. You cannot afford to settle for less just because of the lack of research from your end.
5. Keep CALM And Keep It Real
Hey, listen up: you’re not just having a wedding, you’re getting married- to the guy you always imagined your life with. So make sure this celebration is not just a pretentious glittery show for the guests. The day has to owe everything to your memories for life and execute it that way. Now, keeping it real, has so much pressure sometimes, you’ll have to trust your guts and keep calm throughout and Voila! Your day will be all that you’d need.
6. No Experiments
This is not just party-planning, it’s a major life transition, just FYI. So, Life transformation is pretty enough for you to not seek any other transformation to be frank. Trying new haircut, hair color, tattoos, extreme gyming with no knowledge to it might not be a very good idea for the situation.
7. Let No Hitler Dictate Your Day Their Way!
Not that your BFF's and relatives are not important but that doesn’t mean you’ll let them handle your day on their dictatorship. Better to be clear on your wedding plans than to regret it later in life. Be sensitive on how you had always dreamed of it since you were a little baby. Yes, they may get involved because they are so close to you but being close also has better things to be a part of the wedding than bossing around.
Keep these basic pointers fresh in your head, at and around your wedding and you’re good to go…
Remember: Forewarned is forearmed!