10 Reasons Why Younger Women Like Dating Older Men
That was a nice title, we managed to get you here so we deserve a pat on our back! Alright now back to the point, we know we said that young women like older men but before you young boys decide to dye your hair grey to get them, it doesn’t apply to every girl! But you probably have faced a situation where you were trying to woo a girl and did everything right, from dressing to texting to one-liner but she still ended up with your senior. We totally get you, buddy, we’ve been there and done that. So we thought why not help the likes of you to understand where you went wrong or rather what are the young girls looking for. Are you interested in this ride into a young girl’s mind who goes gaga over older men?
Number 10. They have an old-world charm
What do you expect to happen on a first date with a young boy? He’ll probably come late with a goofy expression plastered on his face and say “Heyyy whaddupp babesss”! While some girls would fall for this carefree attitude and expect some of his “coolness” to rub on them, others would find it a turn off! Pulling a chair, getting flowers or giving a peck on the cheek instead of pushing your tongue down her throat might impress her more. After all, there is nothing like going old school in a budding romance!
Number 9. They’re more established
We’re not saying that younger men can’t be successful but the chances are bleak. Older men have spent years establishing themselves and thus have higher chances of owning the luxuries of life. If the man owns a house, a car, maybe a holiday cottage with a boat, his lady love can enjoy all this with him! Women who are financially independent are also inclined to date a man who is established or things come easy to him. Come on, wealth makes dating more enjoyable, right?
Number 8. They are better communicators
Being a great communicator is not necessarily based on age because some guys are born with it. But for the rest of us, it takes a lot of time to learn the art of listening and connecting through it. Till the time boys haven’t developed this skill, they are mostly pretending to listen to their girls while they are undressing her in his thoughts! We hope we haven’t offended anyone with this statement because hello, we said that in good humour or maybe that is just a cover-up! Okay, so older men are more likely to hold meaningful conversations at a first meeting or even flirt well at a bar. Women like this “best of both worlds” idea!
Number 7. They’ve got time
A young woman may have a lot of reasons to love a man her age but it will die down if he has no time at his disposal to spend with her! Young men are generally too engrossed in building their career and doing late nights to impress their superiors that they often end up with time schedules with no time slot for their lady love. This will not go down too well with the woman who would eventually look for a man who can wind up work early on a Friday for a weekend getaway! An older man seems like an ideal choice here because he is further ahead in his career and doesn’t have to put in 60 hours of work every week to earn his bread!
Number 6. They’re better at relationships
You get better with experience- that is applicable in all fields in general but for now, we are focusing on the relationship bit! While we are young, we often make mistakes and gradually learn from them. In the case of relationships, after guys are over their amateur mistakes and flaws as a boyfriend, they become a keeper! And age has a role to play in it, with years of dating behind them, they learn to keep realistic expectations and lay them clear in the beginning without beating around the bush. Also, they learn to respect their partner’s needs and wants and have the confidence to take a step when things aren’t working or for the opposite!
Number 5. They are smarter and wiser
Come on now, with all those years in their backpack, you know that they have conquered wisdom and smartness! So while the younger boys are downing one beer after another, the older men are using their years of experience to discuss important topics with their lady and making her fall for his intelligence and wisdom! Let’s face it, boys take a while longer to reach maturity and some girls can’t wait for their boyfriends to grow up and that’s where the older man comes in the picture!
Number 4. They’ve kicked bad habits
You’d probably say that with age our habits tend to grip us even more and it gets difficult to leave behind them. You’ve got a point there but you’ve conveniently kept the maturity aspect out of it. While young men in their 20s would be struggling with their smoking habit or how ogling a woman is not nice, older men have seen the long term consequences of them and have quit these habits for good! That makes for another reason to love a man with grey in his hair!
Number 3. They are more confident
Older men have faced their youthful insecurities, dealt with them and moved on in life. They have emerged victorious and lead a more confident life in general which is generally not enjoyed by young boys. These mature men tend to exude more comfort and create a fun atmosphere for their lady. There is nothing sexier than a man who is confident in his own skin and makes an effort to make others feel the same way about themselves. That’s a quality most women look for in their partner!
Number 2. They aren’t looking to change the woman
An older man has been through many relationships and has learnt that there is no point in trying to mould a woman to make her fit into his life. He would rather go for a girl who he finds compatible with him the most and would enjoy her being what she is. Many women believe that even when they are living in the age of feminism, many young men can’t tolerate a woman who is strong-headed, opinionated and desires independence. Older men, on the other hand, have been through this phase and know that being less controlling is the key to a happy partnership!
Number 1. They know what they are doing in bed
Get her to one orgasm with foreplay and move to the thrusting part. That’s how most young boys behave in the intimacy of their bedrooms. But as their experience with ladies increases, they focus more on the pleasure of their partner. This means that they are not in a hurry to cut the chase and move to the end thing but the foreplay session where they are getting her hot and bothered will end up with orgasms- yes plural! Older men know that a good night is one where their woman loses count of her orgasms. Boys, take the hint!
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